Frequently Asked Questions

The who, what, when, where, and how

What do you offer?

I offer private, real-time bdsm and fetish sessions in Chicago. My minimum is one hour and I offer 90 minute and extended sessions as well. You may also prearrange a phone session via Niteflirt. I do not currently offer cam or skype sessions. I do not offer massage, escort, or prostitution services. I do not participate in illegal activities. To see a list of my limitations click here.

I plan on adding new features to this site making it possible to purchase photo sets, personal items, etc.

Who do you see?

I invite individuals and couples of all nationalities and sexual orientations to indulge my desires. Whether you’re a seasoned player or just getting your feet wet, I will set a tone and pace that is right for you.

My age restriction for live sessions is 25+. This is a matter of personal preference. I reserve the right to ask for verification beforehand or upon arrival and will deny you your session if you are under 25. Phone sessions are available for those 21 and over.

If you feel our interests align, you may fill out a submission form.

When are you available?

I am by appointment only and available to schedule seven days a week. I have both daytime and evening availability. Sessions beginning later than 10pm or earlier than 8am are available at a premium. Availability is subject to change. Advanced booking is the only way to ensure the time and day you want.

Where are you located?

I currently have access to three discrete, fully equipped play spaces in Chicago depending on which best suits our needs.  Which one we decide to use will be determined by where you’re traveling from, the availability of the space, and what aesthetic you seek. Whether you envision yourself at my mercy surrounded by whips and chains or you prefer a lighter, more domestic setting I will select the perfect space to bring your fantasy to life.  Please note that certain activities such as smoking are only available in certain locations. I do not offer any outcall services.

Do you travel?

I do not have any current travel dates though I do hope to add some major cities within the U.S. in 2019. Stay tuned.

What about safety?

I believe in safe, sane play. While I enjoy pushing limits I will never break them. You will be given safety words to use if you feel the moment is getting too intense or you wish to change directions. By filling out a submission form you are agreeing to use the safety words you’re given and that you also acknowledge that I may also use these safety words if necessary.  I do not engage in any play that I feel will lead to lasting, permanent damage or death.

What about discretion?   

I understand your need for discretion and would never do anything to jeopardize it. Any personal information given is for screening purposes only and not shared. The spaces I play out of are all private and unassuming. You will not run into other guests. You will not be recorded or filmed without your knowledge or consent. Any images posted are with the wishes and consent of the persons in them.  If you have seen me before and are looking for a reference for another provider you must contact me with your request prior to having them contact me.

What are your rates?

Tribute is discussed only after you have established what type of session you’re looking for. Some sessions take more preparation than others and occasionally, certain things will need to be factored in. I do not negotiate on tribute.

How do I book?

The first step to serving me is to read my website thoroughly and fill out a submission form. Advanced booking is always best practice. I prefer a minimum of 24-48 hours notice for new clients and I book as far in advance as 3 weeks. Same day sessions are ONLY available for established clientele and only if I have availability. Once I have received your submission form I will review the information and reach out to you. If I establish that we have common interests then we will move forward. A 1/3 deposit is required to book and I accept this as an Amazon gift card to this email address. For your discretion you may also purchase these cards with cash and send me the code. They are available at most drug stores. You should be prepared to send your deposit the same day you request a session. You will be responsible for bringing the remainder with you in an envelope upon arrival to your session.

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